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Rub the rise of a new family of three generations living under one roof dwelling of their own parents are Landlady

Rub the rise of a new family of three generations living under one roof dwelling of their own parents are Landlady

The new "rub to live races" is not equivalent to "bite the old clan" or family ties swinging back to three generations living under one roof

By David Chai Yan Fei Ni Jie

Nowadays there are two words can describe the network in some urban youth, especially the "80 after" living conditions: "rub to live races" and "chew the old tribe." The former refers to those who intended to go abroad for travel or business trip who, in order to save accommodation while staying local Chinese white-collar apartment; the latter are those who rely on their parents life, not employment, not to pursue further studies with little to occupy young people.

However, there is a new class of groups is a huge up quietly, it ranged between the above two groups, although "rub to live," but those who shared their own parents; though the parent's support, but it is not vagrants, or even were decent job.

It is understood that this "rub their parents to live" situation is more common in major cities, but not limited to "80 after" some "after 70", "60 after" they are happy to have chosen with the parents, "dwelling of their own."

The new "rub live clan": parents are also a baby nurse Landlady

According to the China Research Center on Aging released a set of survey data shows that families with more than 65% of China exists, "the old Scant" phenomenon, South Korea is also a social survey shows that more than 70% of the children of married parents to their children after the still boost family income.

Of course, is huge pressure, high house prices make a lot of 80, after "The Naked marriage" a family with their parents to "squeeze" under the same roof, but the reporter found that many now have "new home" and "80 after" his wife is also willing to work with their parents, "dwelling of their own."

Who lives in Hangzhou, the text of Ms Tsui Road couple were "80," so that the two have combined monthly income of nearly million. Married and have their own set of new houses, but less than six months alone on the wife's mother moved his family home, and then his new home is located in Xin Hua Road, 2,500 yuan a month rent.

Ms Tsui told reporters that he and his parents live, to work and life as a whole. "On one hand can increase the income of a rent the other hand, the family food, utilities and other daily expenses normally paid by the parents. Just buy their daily necessities, and independent living expenses compared to nearly half of less . but there are hot meals home from work waiting for themselves, do not need to worry about in life completely. "

This reporter interviewed a number of "80 after" husband and wife found to help take care of children is also a choice that many people live with their parents after marriage an important reason.

Sit the couple is one of them. When he learned that his wife was pregnant, husband and wife have moved back to her parents home. Last year, his wife gave birth to a daughter, after her mother became half as babysitters. In fact, the majority of "80 after" have said it could not alone take care of children, but not with their parents, so that experience of parental care is their best choice.

Parents: In front of their parents will always be a child

For those married are still select "gnawing old" new "rub to live races", the reporter in the interview found that most parents have expressed their willingness to "shelter" and sometimes the two parents is also a "grab" situation. "Because they are always in front of their parents their children. In front of family ties, the money is minimal." Mama Chu said in an interview.

Mama Chu told reporters that she was from the outset, is prepared to let his son get married to live together with their own. "Although his son has a steady income, but still do not trust him to move out to live alone, living together, one hand can help with household chores, and secondly, you can help take care of children."

Such thinking is not just Mama Chu, a lot of "80 after" parents have the same idea. It is understood that the city is now mostly due to one child, so both sides of the matter sorted out parents want their children to live together after marriage. Mama Chu said: "The small children, not left, like family life have become accustomed to, and if the child himself to move out, some reluctant, the family is also very lonely, and many people have more fun."

Expert: This is a rational choice

"In fact, living together with their parents after marriage and to only occur in" 80 后 "," 70 after "and even earlier some of the couples also have this situation." Sociology of Zhejiang University College of Humanities teacher Liu Zhijun told reporters, " This is a common phenomenon, but the reasons are multi-faceted. "

Liu Zhijun believe that high prices are still the most important factor, in his view, compelled by the pressure of reality, "rub to live" or a "rational choice." Not only save costs, letting affection return achieved by one.

Meanwhile, Zhejiang University School of Humanities Professor of Sociology, Wang Zhang believes that children and parents, "goes back" three generations under one roof to a certain extent reflects the warmth and charm of affection, a reflection of people's desire to family harmony, and enjoy their grandchildren's good wishes.